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The Dignity Index
What Is The Dignity Index?
The Dignity Index is a simple tool that helps you measure whether communication shows dignity or contempt. It uses a scale from 1 to 8, where higher scores show more dignity and lower scores show more contempt.
In our current world, public conversation has become harsh and divisive. Politicians, media figures, and everyday people often use contempt when talking about others. This makes problems worse and prevents us from finding solutions.
Parenting Toolkit and Tips for Learning to Disagree Better
This toolkit helps parents and families develop skills for healthy disagreement. When family members disagree constructively, everyone feels heard, relationships stay strong, and children learn valuable life skills.
Disagreement is natural and inevitable in families. The question isn't whether we'll disagree—it's how we'll disagree. This toolkit teaches practical strategies for navigating differences with respect, curiosity, and care.
This toolkit gives you tools to:
Listen to understand, not just to respond
Express disagreement without attacking or dismissing
Find common ground even in tough conversations
Model healthy conflict resolution for children
Repair relationships after heated moments
Build family communication skills that last a lifetime
Whether you're navigating political differences with extended family, handling sibling conflicts, or working through parenting disagreements with a partner, these tools help create more connection and less division.